10/21/20

An Arty/Sunny Update

 
 Stout yet Stubborn
 
Mama here today to give you an update, or a "journal" for my future reference if you will,
on the continuing saga between Arty and Sunny.  Our motto here at LLB Gang headquarters is "One Day at a Time" and we have some really good days and some really bad days too. 
 
Let's start with Arty. We are lucky enough to have a big downstairs living area, big enough that we can have it fenced into two areas...Right now, Arty is staying on one side of the house during the mornings and evenings. During Sunny's afternoon naps, Rosy and Arty go for a walk and then Arty spends some time with Rosy and Jakey before heading back to his part of the house.  Arty needs to be watched around Jakey, as he will, at times, decide he doesn't like Jakey's face and will go after him (this has been going on since before Sunny came to live with us). Arty's impatience and short, unpredictable fuse make it very difficult for us to trust him alone with any of the pups at the moment. But while Arty's stubborn and aggressive behavior may have started the problem,  Sunny's fierceness has not helped anything.
 
 
 
 
 

Tiny yet Fierce

Sunny, at almost six months old,  is starting to come into her own. While she is now getting big enough to play with the big dogs, she has taken to barking non stop whenever she even hears Arty moving around in the other room. This, of course, ends up in a major barking battle between Arty and Sunny with hackles up and tails flicking(posturing). Needless to say, they won't be spending time together anytime soon. Sunny can be a bit bossy, especially with Jakey, and we have had to break she and Jakey up a few times.(no blood has been shed from any dog, we do have that going for us).  Luckily, Sunny and Rosy get along well.  Rosy doesn't take any of Sunny's bossiness seriously and they play together showing no signs of aggression.

 

Enter our "thankfuls" for this week. With input from our awesome Vet, Dr. R,  we decided to look for a trainer/behaviorist for both our problem children. Living in a VERY rural town, we have no access to Behaviorists(but have a list from friends of some in Southern California to call if we need a consult) but have found a wonderful, patient trainer we have been working with. With her help we are teaching Sunny that playing with us(and getting delicious noms) is much more fun than barking at Arty. We can't thank Dr. R enough for taking the time to coach us via email and continue to take good care of Arty. Sunny and the rest of the Gang.

 

It is hopeful that with time, training and possibly medication for Arty, we will be able to all live together in harmony during vacations in the RV we plan to get early next year!

  


Thank you Brian for hosting the
Thankful Thursday Blog Hop!

21 comments:

  1. that was super nice from dr. r to help you out. we live in a rural area too and there any help is hard to find... we know that it will work with training and treat... that is the magic spell we need ;O)

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  2. Oh we do hope that, with the help of Dr. R, peace will soon reign in the LLB gang household, and you all will travel in harmony on RV vacations!

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  3. Not getting along in the family is hard on us dogs and especially hard on the humans. Getting everyone back together is a long project with lots of patience needed, but if you work at it and give it time, hopefully you can all be back together.

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  4. Hari OM
    OMD Arty, you getting tetchy in yer ol' age fella??? And Sunny, typical teenager, eh, thinking the world will bow before you? Well I am so glad your pawrents have got Dr R and the trainer lady to help them understand you a bit better and to help you understand what's needed of you too... I am sending lots of Loving and Calming vibes your way and hope that peace (or at least a truce) will reign over the LLB gang e'er lang!!! Hugs and wags, YAM-aunty xxx

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  5. We wish you all the best, we know what it's like to have one who doesn't get along, that's how our Angel Precious was. Thanks for joining our Thankful Thursday Blog Hop!

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  6. Sorry to hear things haven't been going smoothly with all the pups but it sounds like you are on the right track to straighten things out. We have our paws crossed that you will all be able to enjoy long RV trips one day.

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  7. OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH dear me. I wish I had something helpful to say. But I sure do send you lots of hugs and prayers for patience and most of all overnight miracle.
    Arty and Sunny in spite of your 'dispositions', you look quite adorable.
    Hugs Aunty HiC

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  8. Sounds like you've got a battle for dominance going on. Hope things work out OK.

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  9. I am so happy to hear that you found someone that is able to help you and I don't know if you fall rkb in rocking and rolling in Colorado but she's having the same issues with Hachi and Chara she might have some pointers for you. And they are using drugs with Hachi and they're working great

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  10. Thank goodness for Dr R. We hope everything will work out in time for all of you. We know this isn't easy.

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  11. We just knew that Sunny was going to be boss (or at least not stop trying to be). I'm so grateful that neither our Lucy nor Xena care about alpha position. May you find peace in your home again soon, maybe with some help from CBD oil.

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  12. Sometimes those bigger than life personalities just don't do well with one another. Elsa goes after Norman frequently so I have to watch her like a hawk before she gets amped up. Hopefully your trainer will be able to help out. Good luck keeping the peace.

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  13. Sometimes you need a professional to help guide you through issues. I always relied on those professionals.

    Have a fabulous Thankful Thursday. Scritches to all the pups. ♥

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  14. Oh, problems like that are no fun for anyone, especially those caught in between! We're glad that Sunny is showing progress, and hopefully Arty will chill a little too!

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  15. Sounds like Dog Politics is as complex as Cat Politics! Patience, love and time should solve the issue, it usually is the only thing that works with the cats.

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  16. Problems exist for many of us for such strange reasons that makes us wonder what the hell.................

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  17. Where's there's a will, there's a way. We know you will work hard on that training to find a peaceful coexistence for the pups. Our Angel Dakota was not always very nice to the two small cockapoos Mom also had then.

    Our human sister is getting shih-tzu #3 Saturday. "HE", unnamed as yet, will be joining Duncan and Dexter. Those two boys are so bonded, Mom is hoping #3 doesn't upset the apple cart.

    Woos - Lightning, Misty, and Timber

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  18. We are glad you are addressing the issue. We girls do our best fighting in the middle of the night on the bed. It is like a wrestling ring.

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  19. Oh, that sounds like when Ma was a wee lass, and her Wirehair Fox Terrier Kelly had a litter, and the peeps decided to keep one, and well, it went something like Arty and Sunny. Had to keeps them separated practically their whole lives. Butts, they were happy, as long as they weren't in the same room ☺ We didn't have the doggie help there is available nows ~ so happy you guys are working everything out. I'll keep my paws crossed for you guys! ☺
    Oh, and Ma says that in the last year, I've been 'copping attitude' too. I don't knows what she's talkin' abouts, butts she SAYS it's cause I'm 12, and old age issues are makin' me crabby. whatevers. (you do knows Ma lies rights??? just sayin'.....)
    Kisses,
    Ruby ♥

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  20. Lulu: "We're very happy to hear that you found somebody to help out with getting Arty and Sunny to get along! We sure hope that you have a fully peaceable pack soon!"

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  21. We are glad you were able to find some help, and we hope progress continues. It's so stressful when everyone doesn't get along! :(

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